Looking at people without judgement is easier said than done. How can we have judgement-free relationship with people around us?
God administers His grace in different ways and in different time of lives. We can see other people being blessed and we want that too. And we begin complain to about why someone is blessed more that we are.
To stay salty is to live out the beatitudes. To be salty is to be like Christ. When we do that we help people around us develop a taste for Christ and be attracted to Him.
We have an obligation to serve others at our expense. Love sounds very easy. But true love is hard. We will always learn how to love.